Men from many different lives and lifestyles come to this work.

You may identify as Gay, but you're not currently in a relationship.  It's been a while since you've experienced intimacy, even though you may have had some sexual encounters.  You're missing that special closeness, tenderness, warmth, safety and vulnerability with another man.

Maybe you're in a relationship with a man who you truly love.  But over the years, you've grown apart from your partner for whatever reason.  You now question your own ability to create and enjoy intimacy in your relationship.  You yearn to feel that intimacy again.  You want to re-ignite that spark, and bring it back to your loving relationship.

You might be in a relationship with a woman. But you've had an attraction to men as well, for a long time.  You may or may not have acted on that attraction.  But you've always wanted to find a safe space and trustworthy man to help you begin to explore that part of yourself.

Or you might be expending an enormous amount of energy hiding your feelings toward men.  You're exhausted.  You've had to portray a public persona that isn't the real you.  But you've played the game in order to protect yourself - to stay safe with your secret.  You wish you could just stop all the deception; breathe a sigh of relief; and be your true self, if only for an hour or so.

Maybe you're the primary caretaker of a loved one.  Your energy is pulled in so many directions.  And at the end of each day, there's little left of you, and for you.  You wish someone would just take you in his strong and caring arms, and hold you... as a way of showing you that all is well.  You long to let go, and receive the same care that you so freely give to others.

Perhaps your career requires you to make many major decisions.  You're good at that.  But over time, it's begun to wear on you.  You might also be the workplace authority who a number of people look to for direction and advice.  While you're happy to share your expertise with those whom you work with, you feel that responsibility as a major weight on your shoulders.  You wish you could escape, if only for a short while.  You'd love to hand over the decision-making and control to someone else, another man who is kind, and only wants what's best for you.

These are examples of the men who come to this work.  Please take the time to read their testimonials, found on another page of this website.  I welcomed them, just as I welcome you, with open arms.